Not that many things REALLY bother me. I like to pride myself on the fact that I am pretty easy to get along with and even little things can make me happy. At the same time however, I am human and there are some things that downright drive me insane. Like the fact that I am at work right now and the website I do my blogging on isn’t working on the computer so I am typing this on word. UGH.
Anyways, out of the few things that piss me off many of them are things that guys do at the bar. Now I’m not trying to sound like a prissy girl who gets hit on by a million guys and is a beyotch towards them after, but seriously sometimes I just don’t know what goes through people’s minds when they say or do certain things. WHY DID YOU THINK THAT WAS A GOOD IDEA?!
So here my list of things that guys probably shouldn’t do or say at the bar.
(Then again what the hell do I know? Do whatever you want.)
1. When I put on my cowboy boots and go to Ranchman’s, I will rarely turn a guy down for a dance. I think two-stepping is fun and I love country music. HOWEVER, don’t try and get to know me while we’re dancing. Yes you can ask my name, sure, but don’t ask what I do for work and what I’m studying at school and my hobbies while we’re on the super loud dance floor! Come on now.
2. Sometimes when I get overwhelmed in a crowded bar, I like to just go stand or sit by myself for a minute. There is no way I’m the only one who feels like that! So if you see a girl standing or sitting alone, don’t go and ask her “why are you sitting alone?” I will be the one who comes back with a sassy response like “because I want to sit alone.” I’m not saying guys shouldn’t approach girls at all but just don’t say dumb things. By all means go up and start a conversation, but don’t be an annoying idiot and ask stupid questions.
3. Also, don’t ask a girl “why aren’t you dancing?” If you want to dance with her, ask her to dance and then see where that leads.
4. Please oh please do not ask where I’m from. And if you do, and I say Canada, then just leave it at that and don’t ask where my parents and grandparents are from. It is actually sooooo annoying. I guess if you ask on a normal date or something then whatever, but not to someone you are just meeting at the bar. Got it??
5. If you buy me a shot of tequila, thank you and everything but please let me have chase for it after. (Yes it’s happened and it was weird)
6. I didn’t realize how therapeutic writing this post would be I guess I’ve been bottling this all up.
7. Don’t say that I have really beautiful blue eyes, when my eyes are actually brown. But I guess maybe you are color blind so then I am really sorry.
So I have a feeling that this list will be ongoing, but it’s quite long already so I think I am going to post it up now! Let me know if you have any other suggestions of things that guys shouldn’t do at the bar. Or turn the tables around and tell me annoying things that girls do?
XO
